Holidays are a time for joy, community, and fun…but they can also bring a lot of stress and conflicting feelings. It often brings unique challenges for those in eating disorder recovery or healing their relationship with food and their bodies. Meals with loved ones and societal pressure can trigger stress and anxiety. Busy schedules can make it difficult to set time aside to care for yourself. If you’re feeling nervous about the holidays, it’s totally understandable and we’ve got you! Here’s your guide to surviving the holidays while in eating disorder recovery.
It’s okay to set boundaries that support your recovery. Grant yourself permission to prioritize self-care and acknowledge the progress you’ve made. It can feel uncomfortable in the moment to say no to an outing you don’t have energy for or to ask a relative to please not comment on your body. But, give yourself compassion and embrace what you need. Additionally, recovery isn’t linear. Give yourself empathy and patience if eating disorder recovery during the holidays isn’t going as you expected.
Creating a plan that aligns with your recovery goals is empowering. Communicate your needs to friends or family members to ensure you have a supportive environment during gatherings. Schedule in your therapy, dietitian, and other important appointments. Pack snacks and advocate for meal breaks to be sure you’re nourishing your body throughout busy holiday activities. Allow enough space for you to rest.
Lean on your community. Whether it’s a therapist, support group, family, or trusted friend, having someone to confide in can make recovery feel less lonely.
Asking for help can be uncomfortable if you’re feeling like you have to survive the holidays while in eaitng disorder recovery on your own…but it can also be incredibly empowering. If you want a little help figuring out what support you need or how to ask for it, check out this blog post.
Take a moment to recognize your strength and resilience in your recovery journey. Celebrate every step forward and give yourself permission to enjoy every moment that you can.
The holiday season doesn’t have to feel like an impossible challenge to your progress in recovery. By approaching it with self-compassion, mindful planning, and asking for support, you can navigate this time while honoring your journey to healing.
Remember, your recovery is worth every effort. We’re wishing you a warm and gentle holiday season!
If you’re seeking further support or guidance during this holiday season, we’re here to help. Schedule your free discovery call today!
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Unpacking your relationship with food and your body is vulnerable work. It’s important to find the right provider who values you and supports your unique needs while being able to give you trusted guidance. There’s no one size fits all approach that’s guaranteed to work for everyone. All people are different, including providers. Here is a 7 step guide to find an intuitive eating provider that fits for you!
Take a moment to reflect on your specific needs and concerns. Consider the areas you are seeking support in, whether it’s eating disorder recovery, body positivity, intuitive eating, or any other aspect of your well-being. This self-reflection will serve as a foundation for finding a provider who specializes in those areas.
Once you have identified your needs, it’s time to do a little research. Look for providers who possess the necessary qualifications and experience. Seek professionals who have specialized expertise in the specific areas you are looking for. Their expertise and familiarity with the challenges you are navigating can make a significant difference in your treatment journey.
Finding a provider who shares your beliefs and values is essential for a successful therapeutic relationship. Explore their websites, social media platforms, or published articles to understand their approach and philosophy. Look for professionals who emphasize a client-centered approach, valuing your unique experiences and goals as an integral part of the treatment process.
Communication is key to building a strong therapeutic alliance. Pay attention to the provider’s communication style and assess whether it resonates with you. Seek professionals who demonstrate clear and compassionate language and create a safe and supportive environment for your healing journey.
Consider practical factors such as location, availability of virtual sessions, appointment scheduling, and preferred communication channels. Ensure that the provider’s accessibility aligns with your needs, whether you prefer in-person visits or virtual sessions from the comfort of your own space.
Reach out to trusted sources for referrals and recommendations. Seek guidance from friends, family, or healthcare professionals who have had positive experiences with providers. It’s important that your healthcare team works together to give you the most comprehensive care.
Listen to your intuition. Pay attention to how you feel when interacting with a potential provider. Establishing a relationship and feeling comfortable, supported, and understood are essential components of a successful therapeutic relationship. Trust your instincts as you navigate this journey.
Finding an intuitive eating provider who aligns with your needs and values is a crucial step towards your well-being. Reflect on your needs, research thoroughly, and trust your intuition in this process. Remember, the right provider is one who supports and empowers you on your path to healing and recovery. Trust yourself, and take the first step towards finding your perfect fit.
Your health journey is unique, and finding the right intuitive eating provider may take time. Stay committed to your needs and values, and don’t hesitate to explore multiple options until you find the one that feels good to you. Keep tapping into your own intuition, and let it guide you towards the provider who will be your ultimate ally in achieving your goals.
Find an intuitive eating provider who works for YOU today! If you think we might be a good fit for you, schedule a free discovery session to learn more!
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One of the biggest misconceptions of Intuitive Eating is that you’re eating whatever you want, all the time. People fear that this will lead to eating donuts, cookies, and candy all the time. You’ll be out of control and never be able to stop eating (“fill in food here”).
But trust me, that’s not going to happen. Sure, you might feel like you’re eating more of certain foods that you don’t usually eat (Read: Foods that you haven’t ALLOWED yourself to eat). If you’ve been restricting or “watching” what you eat for a long time, it will take some adjustment while your body recalibrates to it’s balance spot.
The intention of Intuitive Eating is to see ALL foods in a neutral way. No foods are “good”, no foods are “bad”. You are not good or bad for eating a certain way either. Permission. Freedom. Peace. As opposed to shame and guilt.
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Self-care for Intuitive Eaters is very important. Utilizing food to comfort and nourish yourself is not only normal, but it’s also perfectly healthy.
It means your body’s got your back! I mean, let’s be real, there are much more destructive ways to cope than with a couple of cookies. The issue rises when your only coping mechanism is food. When this happens, a couple of cookies probably won’t cut it and it likely will turn into the whole sleeve and I can almost guarantee no one feels better (emotionally or physically) after eating a sleeve of cookies.
Not to mention the urgency and shame you’re likely going to feel while eating them, completely sabotaging the experience even more!
Instead, we need a toolbox of coping strategies for when life gets stressful. Food can absolutely be a part of that but we need other support too.
Check out this list of self-care ideas to build your toolbox and keep it handy for when you may need some suggestions!
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Self-care is an essential component of maintaining a healthy and sustainable relationship with food as an Intuitive Eater. By prioritizing self-care practices, Intuitive Eaters can fill up their own cup and better connect with themselves.
Remember that self-care is not a one-size-fits-all approach and requires continuous exploration and trial and error to find what works best for you. What feels supportive to one person might not feel supportive to another- and that’s totally okay!
Let us know what else you might add to this list in the comments below!